Posted by: wordofthevine | May 22, 2013

To be a Living Cross

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To be a “living Cross” means to be Jesus, to take on His deepest desires as our own and to approach the World with His priorities. Is this possible you ask, you ask with almost the same aghast as the Virgins response, “How can this be, for I do not know man?” Both you and Mary are speaking to the same person, the Holy Spirit. To be a “living Cross” is to be under the power and influence of the Holy Spirit, who forms us in Jesus.

Notice in this last statement, I did not say to form Jesus in us, but us in Jesus. The path to intimate renewal in the Holy Spirit, is to allow the action of life to empty us of anything that can present an obstacle for us to be immersed in the living presence of Jesus, like Mother Teresa described “as a drop in the infinite ocean of God.” We don’t seek the Cross but we are to learn to use it well, for our sanctification, when it comes to us. Probably the best crosses are those that bring us to love those that are difficult to love, the people who hurt us, ignore us and the like. Today, accept and use well, the ordinary, yet extraordinary moments, when you have to extend yourself to others in a loving way when you don’t feel like it. These are divine invitations, and openings into grace that bring you one step closer to being a “living Cross.”  Keep your eternal perspective! When you review your life, you will treasure these “divine opportunities” that helped you purify your heart and become a living drop of Christ’s precious blood in the ocean of His Heart!  (Now, as I go to sort laundry, I can feel God’s gift to me!) ~Mary

Posted by: wordofthevine | May 16, 2013

Pentecost in the Present Moment!

Jesus living the moment in Resurrection grace!

Jesus living the moment in Resurrection grace!

Think of yourself! Does this fit you and your perspective right now? How many times in the last hour have you thought about God, or felt His presence with you somehow? In the second chapter, the prophet Jeremiah, writes inspired words from God: “My people hath forgotten Me days with out number.” He describes our major human defect that comes to us from original sin; principally, we tend to forget God and fend for ourselves.

Why is this important? It’s important because our eternity and the eternity of others hangs in the balance of how we live the present moments of our day. When we forget God, we see the present moment in a distorted way,  solely on the  horizontal plane of time, solely a moment in time, with the past gone and the future not yet here. There is a three dimensional sense of time that is important for Christians to consider. Otherwise, we won’t live our lives fully for eternity and we won’t cultivate our deepest goodness and spiritual enrichment of others. We are called to live  Pentecost moments!

Father Garrigou-Lagrange, O.P., author and spiritual master, says “the present moment is also on a vertical line which attaches it to the single instant of immobile eternity, and that there is a divine manner of living the present moment in order that by merit it may enter into eternity. To be immersed in time, is to forget the value of time, that is to say, its relation to eternity.”

In our fast paced lives, how do we mend our ways? The goal is to become  lovingly attentive to God, like a sunflower that follows the sun” in everything we do, according to Venerable Father Felix Rougier, M.Sp.S.  Father Lagrange goes further with this thought, we have to wake up, practice a certain discipline to “apply ourselves to the duty of the moment with a healthy realism directing the accomplishment of this duty to God, who should be loved above all.” We do this because, in the mercy of God’s plan, He chooses us to offer our lives in living sacrifice for the salvation of others. The present moment holds a vital energy that can be tapped, by gather it with intention, offering it to the sacrifice of Jesus to the Father, so He can direct sanctifying graces to others. In this, each moment can be knitted into eternity and make a real difference in the lives of people right now. The “children of light” are called to be co-redeemers of their brothers and sisters.

In the next moment, what ever it holds, keep your eternal bearings. Sometimes when the Lord knows you’re equipped, He allows such powerful opportunities for your growth. Someone talks about you behind your back, comes to the work group unprepared, cuts you off on the freeway; collect the gift that comes in this suffering; glance and share it with Jesus with the intention He’ll receive it and offer it to His Father…for the very culprit that caused the pain. Seek to ground yourself in the realization of God with you at the start of every hour, at 3 PM, the hour of Jesus’ crucifixan, or as often as you can muster yourself.

We stand on the horizon in our day of a new renewal in grace, if we learn to cultivate eternity in the midst of the here and now. Look around you! What do you see now?…a divine appointment right in front of you? A Pentecost Moment? ~ Mary

Posted by: wordofthevine | May 3, 2013

The Meaning of Human Suffering!

 Keeping an eternal perspective!

Keeping an eternal perspective!

Today in Iowa we have cold rain. The grass is green. The flowers are up, but it is forty degrees and raining. Life is a mix of possibilities but we just don’t feel them yet. I, too, like the weather, see both the growing potential of good inside me and the weight of my humanity. I’m the parent of six kids; I mean 4 young adults and two teenagers. Everyday there is one with something that needs prayers. I have to choose to offer their needs to God in prayer and not let my own sensitivity bring me down to worry. My own compassion needs to draw me to greater availability to others and greater capacity to make a difference in their lives. Melancholy can divert me.  It’s deep thoughts like these that make me seem in another world when I’m grocery shopping. I had the experience one time of running into another persons cart as I pondered the meaning of man.

How do I make sense of our human situation, which often involves suffering, in the light of  the Redemption wrought by Jesus?  Bl. John Paul II’s Salvifici Doloris, or the Christian Meaning of Human Suffering offers us the key. He says that we have to see our lives in a supernatural way and get rid of the sense that suffering is useless. We need to discover the saving value of uniting our suffering to the suffering of Jesus, “for it is the irreplaceable mediator and author of the good things in the world.” He doesn’t say we seek suffering but we need to learn the moment by moment offering of our pain to Jesus for “suffering more than anything else makes present in the history of humanity the powers of the Redemption.”  What a mouthful!

We do this by wrestling with ourselves. Catch the moment, even when you don’t feel like it. In the midst of the moment, choose to glance towards God. Realize that he notices and is gazing back at you and that he’s moved, himself, by your suffering. Discipline your mind to see the needs of others and not just the blaring situation in your own situation. Take the leap of faith to believe for this moment that a loving God is allowing you to love others when it costs you something. Suffering releases our deepest capacity to love others.

I’m thinking of this now when I step out into the cold rain to pick up my Mom for lunch. Christ’s love can strengthen us to brave the elements of our concrete lives. When we get to heaven, we will see the power of these simple human choices………..to love, to be available and to be faithful in the moment. ~ Mary

Posted by: wordofthevine | April 24, 2013

The Power of Living the Eucharist!

Mary Ann Kuharski

Mary Ann Kuharski

Mary Jo Copeland

Mary Jo Copeland

In this moment, His Holiness invites all to intensify their life of prayer, making the Eucharist the true center of Christian communities, where prayer and thanksgiving stimulate a renewed evangelizing commitment of ecclesial communion. May all baptized draw from the Most Blessed Sacrament of the Altar copious spiritual energies to build an ever more just and reconciled world, in keeping with the message of Our Lord Jesus Christ. 

These words of Pope Francis bring  two wonderful women to my mind, Mary Ann Kuharski, founder of Prolife Across America and Mary Jo Copeland, founder of Sharing and Caring Hands. I interviewed both women in the Twin Cities, St. Paul and Minneapolis, MN as part of my thesis for the Masters in Theology. Both women have made a huge impact in their communities and beyond, including my own life and family.

From Mary Ann Kuharski’s bio we read:

Mary Ann is an author and speaker on life and family. She is a founding member and has been President
of PROLIFE Across AMERICA since 1989, known as “The Billboard People” for its positive and
persuasive educational outreach. In 2012, they sponsored over 1000 radio ads and 6500 billboards in 44
states across America.

Mary Jo Copeland is called by “the people on the streets of Minneapolis call her their “street mother.” City officials call her “an extraordinary leader” and an “urban saint.”  She feeds thousands of homeless daily with the help of volunteers, has transitional housing for over 500 people, runs a teen and child centers.

What an amazing list of accomplishments for these two women. What is most impressive however may not be so obvious. Both women energize their service by at least two hours of Eucharistic adoration or prayer before the Blessed Sacrament daily and daily Mass. They epitomize the words of Pope Francis to live lives of intense prayer, and lives grounded and energized by the Eucharist. Love exudes from both women, the love of Jesus that has revolutionized their lives and the lives of all they meet.

I am personally eternally grateful especially to Mary Ann Kuharshi. In 1996, she spoke to the moms group where I was a member  I had 5 small preschool children or younger and found my patience waning . She spoke about the power of Sacramental confession. I returned to the Sacrament of Reconciliation after 15 years absence. What a key! Sacramental confession, daily Mass and regular prayer transformed my parenting.

How can you incorporate more intense prayer in your own life, and how can you ground it in the Eucharist. The World needs more “urban and country saints”! ~ Mary

Posted by: wordofthevine | April 10, 2013

How do the Saints Help Us?

Elisabeth Leseur and husband, Felix

Elisabeth Leseur and husband, Felix

I just returned from language immersion in Guadalajara, Mexico where I observed bystanders examining the relics of some of the Mexican martyrs in the Cathedral of Guadalajara. A few of them grimaced at the pieces of bone and jeered at the practice of reverencing the remains of Saints. Even in Mexico, I heard, “How weird: to pray to the Saints!”

Well, that is not our theology as Catholics, to pray to the Saints. We ask them to pray with us with certain intentions like we do any close friend here and now. The Communion of Saints, the Catechism of the Catholic Church says is a reality. It defines it as a unity between persons living on Earth and those who have died, “a unity of faith, and love” that’s especially powerful as we celebrate the Eucharist. In Christ, we share a unity with the holy witnesses in Heaven that makes a real time difference for us now on Earth. How profound and  important to display visual reminders of our common human substance in the relics of the Saints.

We’ve been encouraged in this Year of Faith, to create a “culture of witness” so our presence to others and the example and  presence  of the Saints can encourage conversion and greater love of God in others. We need to connect the Saints to the reality of our own lives so we don’t have to re-invent the wheel in the spiritual life. By exploring the ordinary details of the life of a Saint, we can see how grace impacted them, and likewise, how grace may move and heal us today.

Our online, interactive retreat, Saints of the New Evangelization,which we offer every third Wednesday, of every month from 12-1 PM CST, will explore Servant of God Elisabeth Leseur, a 20th Century woman whose diary inspired her atheist husband, Felix, to reconnect to Catholicism and become a Dominican priest. Father Felix Leseur gave Bl. Bishop Sheen some yearly retreats. To register for this quick spiritual shot in the arm, go to http://www.incarnateinstitute.org, registration page. Read a description of the retreat with this blog under Upcoming Events. Start your process of growing in holiness and mission in the World this month by logging into our online retreat center with your computer, your IPhone, or IPads ~Mary

Posted by: wordofthevine | April 9, 2013

We have a new archbishop

Bishop Jackels

Today I helped my kids pack lunches and get out the door for the bus and walked into Mass as the associate pastor was finishing his announcement about a new archbishop for the Archdiocese of Dubuque. I felt a little confused, like I missed a pivotal scene of a movie.  I asked the man behind me, “What did he say, a new Archbishop? What is his name?” He replied, “Archbishop Michael Owens Jackels.”  I blurted out, “Que bueno” in my newly developing Spanish. Out of the blue of my ordinary life, the word and work of God sprang forth, much like it did with Mary and the Angel Gabrielle at the Annunciation, the Solemnity that we were celebrating today. We heard a new name during the Eucharistic Prayer today. God is a God of surprises.

Let us approach every Mass and every Sacrament with this expectation that God is alive and doing something new. Every Sacrament is an encounter with the Saving mystery of God. Let each of us, in the silence of our hearts, let God announce our new name, and reveal His will and preferences for us. We each are chosen for an unrepeatable mission for God. Archbishop Jackels said “Yes” to being our Archbishop as Mary said “Yes” to being the Mother of the Redeemer!  I’m sure that when Bishop Jackels received the phone call from the Nuncio announcing the Good News of his appointment as Archbishop of Dubuque, he stood in amazed and stunned silence for the generosity of God towards him. What is God asking of you? Remember, have “out of this World” hopes for yourself in God, for nothing is impossible for God. ~ Mary

P.S. We are overjoyed with the good news of Bishop Jackel’s appointment as the Archbishop of Dubuque! Welcome Archbishop Jackels!

Posted by: wordofthevine | April 3, 2013

Finding God in Easter Grace!

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Have you ever been in a spiritual state where you know that you must pray, and  that you should pray but you don’t feel like praying? The passion seems to be missing and the sweetness has dried up. In this spiritual climate it is more difficult to feel the Easter miracle as active in your own life. During these times, we may be tempted to cut prayer short or even to skip it all together. What are we to do in this time period if we find ourselves at this place? At the onset, our task to to show up for prayer and remain…

It seems that this question comes into spiritual direction sessions with many people that visit with me about their spiritual lives , and this question hits me personally. I just returned from an intensive language immersion in Guadalajara, MX and many people have greeted me, “Welcome back! It must have been such a retreat and a spiritually moving experience.” Actually for me, with the sheer exhaustion of all the intensive intellectual work of learning a new language, during the entire excursion, I was in a deep spiritual funk, or extreme dryness. I found it almost impossible to pray but I did pray.

Many spiritual writers warn us to guard the silence of our hearts and to commit our personal interior energies to projects with discernment to avoid spiritual funks. Most also say that the spiritual life has an ebb and flow, desolations and consolations. Certain virtues only grow in harsh conditions of soul, conditions of soul that encourage our growth and maturation in our relationship with God. Our challenge is to love God faithfully without  any bells and whistles.I’m wondering as we grow, consolations many times become more gentle and even subtle and often we find that God has been guiding our choices even when it has not been obvious to us.

I like this quote from Father John McCloskey in his review on the book, On the Meaning of Sex by J. Budziszewski: Charity is an attitude that exults in the sheer existence of the other person (or of God). Moreover, because charity is not a feeling but an activity of the will, it is something that one decides to do, and it can be promised. To be sure, such love costs me something, makes me spend myself, even makes me want to spend myself…In its perfection, the person whom I love becomes another self to me. While I’m not suggesting that we limit God and make Him simply another self to us, what I am saying brings a new twist to experiencing the Easter mystery in the ordinary confines of our human existence. 

Many times we encounter the living Jesus in the midst of our human experiences with the ups and downs and flat phases, but like Mary Magdalene, we don’t recognize Him. We also don’t acknowledge and even cherish our choices for God that we make by an action of our wills. When we remain in prayer when everything in us wants to quit because nothing seems to be happening, this is beautiful and pleasing prayer, and an experience of acting in Resurrection grace! We choose Him without bells and whistles. This reminds me of what’s necessary in marriage, after the honeymoon, I choose you, My Spouse, even when you wake up with bed head, or when you seem occupied with your work… Ask yourself today: How can I find the Easter mystery alive in the ups and downs of this day? ~Mary

Posted by: wordofthevine | March 22, 2013

Pope Francis I: “a Christian saint for humanity.”

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From Zenit News from Rome from March 20, 2013 we find the interesting quote:“John Paul II was the Pope of hope, Benedict XVI the Pope of faith and Francis is the Pope of charity,” “He is a Christian saint for humanity: hope, gentleness and sincerity.” The article highlights the effect that Francis seems to exert on people as he moves so naturally with people. He jumps from the stopped vehicle to kiss a disabled man, who starts laughing in joy. He kisses a crying baby girl and she relaxes, an effect the author supposes is how Jesus moved among people. They were moved in the heart.

Pope Francis, even with the calling to live in the limelight for the Church, exudes the presence that every one of us can cultivate through Baptism and the Christian life. Somehow in the midst of the messiness of Christian life among people, we can catch a glimpse of the transformative love of God that is active in our midst. This is the power of the Life, Death and Resurrection of Jesus when it touches us in ordinary life. Where in your life can the example of Pope Francis I and most especially of Jesus, be a light of hope and love? The Lord, like Pope Francis I, loves the knot holes in the wood of our hearts, for it is precisely where the Lord Jesus can touch us most deeply, and move us to joy. I try to remember this myself as I interact with a teenager who is challenging me, and when I wash sheets from a child who has the stomach flu, which has moved through my house this week. Messiness, once it’s surrendered becomes a place of Resurrection! Praise God! ~ Mary

Posted by: wordofthevine | March 19, 2013

Our New Pope: Pope Francis

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At the inauguration of his pontificate, Pope Francis I issued the following exhortation to the faithful and to the World:

“Today, too, amid so much darkness, we need

 to see the light of hope and to be men and women who bring hope to others.

“Let us never forget that authentic power is service and that the pope too, when exercising power, must enter ever more fully into that service which has its radiant culmination on the Cross.”

“He must be inspired by the lowly, concrete and faithful service which marked St. Joseph and, like him, he must open his arms to protect all of God’s people and embrace with tender affection the whole of humanity, especially the poorest, the weakest, the least important.”

He draws us each back to our roots, our roots as Christians or persons simplified by the Life, Death and Resurrection of Jesus, as persons familiar with the demands of love, of the Cross. When ever we may wander and seek self, comforts, and material gain, let us be awakened by our Pope, for we stand on thin ice or shaky ground. As humans, imbued with the capacity and power of the Gospel, to be temples of the living presence of Christ, we have to be people with our priorities centered on serving others around us in our families, our communities and parishes. This courageous act can be accomplished most easily when we slow down, attend, and notice the needs of others around us. Returning a grimace with a smile, a sharp word with a peaceful word, a cold thirsty yearning with the substance from our hearts, hearts that are grounded in the ever- presence mercy and love of Jesus alive within us. Family and Work life are loaded with opportunities for holiness ~Mary

Posted by: wordofthevine | February 26, 2013

The Heart that Beats for Us!

The Heart that Beats for Us

The Heart that Beats for Us

The Eucharist is the “center” and the “divine spring of our lives” according to Ven. Felix Rougier, M.Sp.S. In fact, he extolled his community, as he does us, to have an “ardent devotion to the Heart that beats there for love of us” December 29, 1929.  He encouraged prayerful engagement with the liturgical mystery of the Eucharist and with faithful attention and prayer with the Blessed Sacrament outside of Mass. Both are essential aspects of developing a living intimacy with Jesus, of taking on His heart. In a summary of his letters, Fr. Rafael Ledesma, M.Sp.S. summarizes Fr. Felix’s work, “In the Mass, Jesus is the love that gives itself without measure. He unites himself to the faithful and together they become only one victim with Him for the glory of the Father. Outside of the Mass, Jesus is the love that invites us to intimate colloquy (conversation) with Him.”

In this light of Ven. Felix and his community, let each of us run to the Eucharist to find our delight so He may progressively take possession of us and transform us into Himself! This is the call our our Baptisms, to make our lives an offering with Jesus for the renewal of the World. This is the heart of the Gospel mystery, the Heart that beats for love of us! ~Mary

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